The Avalon Method For Divorce Recovery
I understand how you’re feeling and what you need from the professionals you work with. You need to start moving forward and develop a plan to successfully navigate your breakup or divorce and build your ideal new life. Divorce can trigger an emotional rollercoaster. There are periods when you’re probably feeling frightened, anxious, angry, frustrated, sad, disappointed, stressed and overwhelmed with the divorce process. And then there might be periods when you’re feeling relieved, calm, confident and optimistic, before you tumble back again into fear and anxiety. It’s exhausting and you might feel like you’re losing control of your life. I really do understand the pain and devastation that divorce can cause emotionally, physically and financially. But it does not have to be that way. There is a better path through divorce and that path is my program, The Avalon Method for Divorce Recovery.
“I teach women how to effectively manage breakups and divorce so they can move with intention on to their new lives with passion and purpose.” - Jodi Sheffield
After decades of personal and professional experience with divorce and the rebuilding of my life, I bring understanding and compassion to each of my clients.
The Avalon Method –
What is it? How will it help me?
My program will get you on the path of “doing divorce right”.
The Avalon Method will empower you with knowledge, strategies and skill sets so you can move forward with hope and transformation.
The Avalon Method will:
• Get you off the emotional rollercoaster of divorce so you can manage your emotions rather than having your emotions manage you
• Help you develop clear thinking
• Make good personal, professional, financial and legal decisions
• Teach you how to defuse and resolve conflict
• Help you grieve and grow so you can leave the past behind and move forward.
• Help you explore your hopes and dreams and develop goals to get you there.
These are lofty goals, especially during the heat of a potentially highly contentious divorce battle. Even without the battle, under the best of circumstances, it can feel nearly impossible to want to consider your ex’s feelings.
The reason The Avalon Method succeeds where other programs do not, is because we provide specific tools and teach techniques to achieve every one of these ideal results. Where most divorce coaches counsel their clients to “be civil”, or to remain on good terms for the benefit of the children/family/friends, etc…, we guide you in using the tools we provide.
Secrets in The Avalon Method
The Avalon Method is powerful. One source of this power comes from the secrets we share with you. Some of those secrets include:
• The 5 secrets to managing a high conflict divorce.
• The 3 mistakes you must avoid after your break up (and the 2 secret tools to guarantee that you are successful!).
• The 4 steps to take that will help you get past your ex and move on with your life.
• The essential shift in mindset that will take you from “getting by” to healing, transforming, growing, and then thriving!
When combined with the other techniques in our program, you will have a complete array of tools in your toolbox with which to overcome self-doubt and propel yourself into your ideal new life.
Jodi Sheffield is a divorce coach, mediator, educator and creator of The Avalon Method for Divorce Recovery. Jodi’s life mission is to empower women through the divorce process and the building of their ideal new lives. She understands the pain and trauma of divorce. In order to minimize the emotional and financial devastation, Jodi developed The Avalon Method.
One of the central themes of her work is that improvement in clients’ lives is possible if they change their mindset.
Once Jodi partners with her clients, they see rapid results. By changing how they think and respond, clients impact their lives and the divorce process in a positive and productive manner.
The Avalon Method is simple enough for every woman to use, even in the most stressful situations and relationships. Jodi distills complex ideas down to easily usable tools and strategies.
Imagine how much easier it is to communicate when those involved in the conversation know how to defuse escalating conflict.
Imagine how much more productive people can be when they are confident in their ability to resolve conflict, no matter how challenging.
Through The Avalon Method, Jodi’s clients learn how to gain control over the most important aspects of their lives so they can focus on achieving their personal and professional goals.
About Jodi
“I was traumatized, confused, angry, sick, and shocked during the process of my divorce and you grounded me with enough information and support to make the necessary decisions to take care of myself and my daughter. While my lawyers were attempting to negotiate a settlement with my ex-husband, you were actually responsible for the final settlement terms, and facilitated the writing of the Marriage Settlement Agreement that was eventually signed and served me well.
You paid attention to all the details that a divorce requires for someone like me who couldn’t possibly know or remember with the stress I was experiencing at the time and lawyers frequently don’t take the time to explain. You came to lawyer’s appointments with me and translated their language into understandable communication for me so that I could make informed wise decisions. You calmed me down rather than inciting the situation. You came to court with me so that I could navigate its system, confusion and waiting. You were also available to me in navigating my personal life as I attempted to regroup into a divorced mother looking for a job and a place to live on a limited income.
I have and will continue to recommend you to others in need of professional support during their divorces. You provide an incredibly high standard of knowledge and experience about the divorce process. You support your clients with current and accurate information maintaining membership in collaborative legal groups and keeping current in collaborative divorce practices. You reasonably and ethically price your services saving clients time and expense minimizing legal fees that they may have otherwise incurred. You add value to the divorce process. You infuse the divorce process with ethics. You humanize the legal process.” - Rhea W.
“The last two years of my life have been more painful than I could ever imagine. I was in a very dark place, and I was depressed, anxious, angry and lost. Not many people could understand the pain I felt, but you did, and you helped to guide me through to the other side. You allowed me to see me and my girls’ situation from a different point of view than my own, always making sure the decisions I made were not a reaction but rather a well thought out plan. I took everything you said to heart, always trying to be calm and stoic for my girls during all the trauma they endured due to their father. Today, I am the best me I have ever been, and my girls are safe at home with their Mommy. You made me realize that the love I have for my girls will always outweigh the anger I have towards my ex husband, and because of that, I was able to protect them. He cannot hurt us anymore. Honestly, without you, I truly do not believe I would be in the better place I am today.” - Lindsay D.
“I wanted to convey my appreciation for the advice and counsel you provided during my divorce process. I only wish that I had known of your services earlier. I am exceedingly confident that you saved me, my children, and the estate, large emotional and financial expenditures. My attorney had me convinced that going to court would be my best recourse to resolve the many marital issues that kept occurring. You were instrumental, actually essential, in showing both me and my soon to be “ex” that the only beneficiary in court would be our respective attorneys. Further, you provided us the “rules of the road” and the tools to effectively communicate our disagreements. Those disagreements were more misunderstandings. You helped us hear each other rather than the noise created by the attorneys. Additionally, getting through the process faster allowed us both to become more productive in our respective professions. As you said, looking forward allows one to be creative, focused, and undistracted. The divorce discovery process (looking back) is counterproductive, as it was costing us both destructive emotional unrest, anger, and frustration.” - J.R.
“Jodi guided me through every step of my divorce. I felt ashamed, embarrassed and angry about getting divorced in my 30s. During such a dark time, Jodi was able to get me to see that I could still create the life I once dreamed of. She helped me stay grounded through it all and encouraged me to keep things amicable so that I could end this chapter of my life as quickly and painlessly as possible. Based on my situation, Jodi suggested using a mediator and in 3 months I was officially divorced. I will forever be grateful for Jodi.” - Lyssa S.
“Thank you very much for the empathy, education and empowerment you so kindly extended to me. I'm paying it forward already, helping a woman in my community with a different, but similar issue. Your efforts really helped me through an extremely challenging time in my life. I’m so appreciative of all your time and expertise.” - Jessica S.
The Avalon Method Has Helped Women Just Like You
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Contact Me
If you or a loved one is in need of help or struggling to start a new life after a breakup or divorce, we’re here to help. Call me at 800-721-1765, or send an Email to megan@jodisheffield.com.
You have a right to be happy, and we can show you how to get there. Call me today!
Tel: 800-721-1765